Something happened last week at school.
I had the fortunate experience of meeting one of my student's parents at our Back To School Night. Now, I often dread this night because it is when we have the opportunity to go over our school and classroom policies in 20 minute sessions and it seems that, inevitably, someone sees it as an opportunity to spend the meeting complaining and challenging me in front of an audience of other parents. ("What do you mean they only have time to eat ONE snack? My son does not have dinner until after 7pm and if I want him to eat TWO snacks at school - he will! " Or, one of my favorites: "How dare you
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underline things in this parent letter? You are insulting my intelligence by putting words in bold print. I will be speaking to your principal about this." That one actually happened to a team mate a few years ago.) I try to consider that for some parents, complaining and attacking may be the only way they feel able to advocate for their child. Maybe it's their way to be involved. I try not to take in personally, but of course I do.
This year our turn out was small. I am down to 25 students because two of them never showed up, and I had a grand total of 9 families attend back to school night. One dad was in attendance for my first session, and it was so refreshing because he took the time to thank me and compliment me on my chosen career. He said that while he enjoys his job in the military, he doesn't exactly LOVE what he does. He told me he could tell by the bright smile and look on my face when he walked into the room that I am doing work that I love. He agreed that teaching, working with children and helping to shape our country's future, is one of the most important jobs out there. He was polite and kind and genuinely concerned for his children, and gracious and thankful to me for the job I will do for his daughter this year. He was vocal about his admiration for teachers, and in front of other parents made sure that he said so.
It was wonderful. So many people love to criticize public education and put down educators without giving a thought to what a day in the life of a teacher really is like. I appreciate this parent more than he will know!